Hi, I'm Elise.
I’m the host of the Pulling the Thread podcast and New York Times best selling author of On Our Best Behavior: The Price Women Pay to Be Good. This is where I write, build community, and connect with you.
Want to better understand yourself and the world?
Join the best community around:
Don’t miss a newsletter!
Never miss an episode.
Books by Elise Loehnen (and friends)
On Our Best Behavior
An instant New York Times bestseller! A groundbreaking exploration of the ancient rules women unwittingly follow in order to be considered “good.”
Choosing Wholeness
Over Goodness
In this workbook companion to On Our Best Behavior, Loehnen and coach Courtney Smith share tools from visionary leaders, healers, and teachers to illuminate the stories we tell ourselves about who we are.
True and False Magic
Elise co-authored True and False Magic with legendary psychiatrist Phil Stutz, co-author of The Tools and Coming Alive, and the subject of the Netflix documentary, Stutz.
